I have always had a strong attachment style.The most important lesson I have learned from my childhood is that attachment is more than how we show our love to our children.It is more than our attachment style. I learned that our attachment style is what determines our life choices.I learned it is a result of …
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As you probably know, my relationship is not working out. I’ll keep being honest, but it’s hard to keep it hidden all the time. I’m afraid that something is going to break, and then we’ll have to address it. The last few months have been a rollercoaster of emotions, and I don’t know how to …
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It was March and that means it’s National Passion Plantation Month at Plantation HQ. As I finish up the last of my visits at the sex farm, I take a moment to reflect on what April will be like. I hope it will be similar to February, with more sunshine and less rain. I’re going …
It’s an interesting thing when the sensations of sexual pleasure and desire hit you like a ton of bricks. Then, just as quickly, you’re left with a dull ache in your heart, your back is a knots up, and you wonder how you slept.Perhaps you were the one, and your partner was not. perhaps they …
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Every relationship comes with different challenges. Sometimes, the challenges are obvious and can be seen very early on in a relationship. Other times, however, it can be harder to tell when the challenges are going to come around to bite us in the butt later on.If you’ve been in a relationship where there’s been a …
Almost every restaurant has a version of the ritual of pulling back the curtain and asking the client to introduce themselves. After a while, the waiter will ask: “Do you want to tell us a little bit about yourself?” and then they will proceed to ask you about yourself. Usually, the questions are about your …
You’re reading this because you’re lonely. Maybe you’re trapped at work. Maybe you live with a partner who doesn’t want the relationship to progress. Maybe you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop with your partner. Whatever the reason, being single is a damn lonely life. It can feel like we’re being used to make …
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Resentment is a mix of feelings — anger, hurt, sadness. It’s a mixture of things we’re attracted to and things that repulse us. Who we’re attracted to gets us mixed up with other people and gets us angry. But you can get over it too.It’s Not Your FaultYou’re not supposed to be angry with someone …
I’ve been living alone for a while.I moved into a rented house a few years ago, and I’ve been making my home here as myself and a single person.And I have to say, it’s been difficult.Moving into a new place with no previous experience of roommates can be challenging. Especially when you’re a single person …
There are many women who say they don’t like “womanly” men. But who said they were “womanly”? I suspect some of these people are also not aware that the men who representationally frame as “womanly” are often the product of deceptive design.It’s time to admit that they’re not always “womanly” imitate earnestness. The men who are …
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